If you’ve decided to seek love via the internet, you should know that there is a certain code of behavior associated with online dating: while some gestures will contribute to your success, there are also certain online dating behaviors that will get you dumped.

Here are some of them:

Sending out tons of identical emails

When you have just signed up to an online dating site, it’s understandable that you want to do a massive outreach. However, simply throwing the bottle at sea and waiting for someone to reply does not work.

Instead of sending out tons of identical emails, why don’t you focus on personalizing those messages? Take the time to read the other person’s profile and let them know what made you contact them. Although you will reach less people, the response rate will almost certainly be higher and you might even stand a chance of meeting someone really special.

Following up again and again

Follow-up is a good strategy sometimes, but it comes with its own set of rules. Nobody likes to feel like they’re being approached by a robot on an online dating site. So, don’t just keep sending out the same follow-up message again and again.

Actually, when it comes to dating, one follow-up email is enough. If the other person decides not to answer, it’s because they are not interested. Process it and move on!

Moving too fast

One of attractions of online dating is that it allows you to skip a few steps compared to the traditional way of meeting people. But this doesn’t mean you can talk marriage and kids before you’ve even met the other person. You cannot say you fell in love with someone you’ve never laid eyes on.

So, if you don’t want to get dumped before you even stand the chance of getting to know each other better, try not to move too fast. Read the signs and respect the other’s boundaries!

Getting sexual too soon

Every woman who has tried online dating at least once has come into contact with one of those really annoying guys who would rather tell you how much they love your body and what they would like to do to you, than ask your name.

Simply put, don’t do that! Unless, of course, you are on an adult hookup site looking for a fling.

Lying

Innocent lies, and even bigger, dirtier ones, are commonplace on online dating sites. Sometimes people want to look cooler, sexier and more successful than they actually are. Sometimes they are just trying to conceal the truth about their own identity.

The reasons are varied, but one thing is certain: as innocent as you may think they are, these lies have great potential to trip you up when you find somebody you want to get serious with.

Now you know what to do – and what not to do – it’s time to find the right online dating site for you. Here at Top 5 Dating Sites we’ve researched dozens of sites to bring you detailed reviews and rankings of the very best around.

Jake Soto
Jake is photographer residing in free spirited San Francisco. He loves documenting things with his camera on a daily basis. He was not into dating sites until hearing some great stories when he became a dedicated user himself. “Dating sites are detailed, visual and versatile, just like photography”. Jake is a regular contributor to the Top 5 Dating blog.
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