Here’s a question many women ask themselves: What’s the shortest and safest way to a man’s heart?
Do you really want to know how to win him over? Well, here are 6 important tips women should follow… according to men.


The way to a man’s heart goes through his stomach. You’ve heard it so many times. You may think it’s a cliché, but it’s actually true. Although it does not mean that cooking and feeding him every day guarantees winning his heart, preparing his favorite dish once in a while will certainly do the job. Just make sure you let him know you do this because you want to, not because you feel that you have to. After all, you don’t want him thinking that you feel your place as a woman is in the kitchen.


Do you know the score of the latest football or basketball game? If you want to win his heart forever, you should! (unless he’s really not that into sports…) Do you want him to call his pal every time he feels like talking about sports or watching the game? Why wouldn’t you be his best buddy? You don’t have to pretend you know everything, but knowing a thing or two about his favorite sport will certainly help.


If you want to find the shortest way to his heart, don’t keep tabs on him! That’s the worst thing you can do. Lay off a bit and give him the freedom to hang out with his friends instead of keeping him on a short leash. He’s not a dog, after all. Not only will he appreciate you for that, but he will also have the opportunity to miss you. Always remember that men don’t like to be suffocated. They value their freedom.


While he might appreciate you as a partner for serious conversations, he certainly likes to relax a bit and have a good time once in a while. So, be your usual self, loosen up and laugh. Making him laugh is a huge plus too! It will only work to your advantage, because when you laugh, you shine!

The Buddies

A woman can often make a man become estranged with his best high school buddies, but do you want to be that woman? Why don’t you lay off a little and think twice? Your guy feels good and enjoys himself in his friends’ company. Don’t you want him to have a good time? Are you that possessive that it has to be all about you? Instead of starting a war with this friend he has had since childhood, why don’t you turn him into your best ally?

The Parents

Parents, especially mothers, can be a thorn in a young couple’s happiness. However, instead of nagging all the time about the things she says, why don’t you just let it go? Easier said than done, I know, but when you have to visit the parents, be on your best behavior, smile and don’t let anything they say or do touch you. If you need to let off steam, don’t do it upon your return home. Just talk to your best friend and then forget all about it! You wouldn’t want him antagonizing his parents or you.


These 6 gems are fairly easy to follow and can really make both of your lives much easier, not to mention more enjoyable. Concluding this post you’ll see that it’s ultimately the effort you’re making into showing him you care about him. Trust me, not only will he appreciate you for doing so, but he’ll make an even bigger effort in return, and if he doesn’t… that’s another post entirely.